VivianYang

这两天…过得有点复杂…有点不知从何记起，那就随心记录好了。

天儿是忽然变暖啦，楼前已经一树花开，意外的惊喜~我的衣服也终于轻便了起来~

觉得自己这两天有点网贫，跟一个自称隐山的博友相谈甚欢~聊聊诗，聊一些奇异的话题，聊聊闲话，也很自得其乐，这……难道是一个人呆久了憋屈的TvT不过他的诗都带有一种奇异风格的作品，读来也很有类似玩解密游戏的乐趣^v^

昨儿晚上课，碰上一个很风趣的老师，一个爱读书不看电视的老师，尽管我们的话题是television talk shows.. He gave me interesting informations about every single topic. I think he gave me both easy mood and knowledge. The two most funny things he said is - 

Bill Gates and Steve Jobs were interesting people in terms of enormously intelligence and creative, but they had very little human skills. They couldn't really speak to people. So I've seen interviews with Bill Gates and Steve Jobs, and I think half way through the conversation the interviewing is speaking what are they speaking about. So they are tremendously intelligence but they don't always know how to speak to people normally. So that could be a problem. ^0^ 这是第一件逗事儿，真是笑死我了。看来人无完人可以针对任何一个人是没错的~We all have our problems and things to deal with. 可是还有笑点—

You will find that when you start a relationship with someone that can be very charming, they listen to every word that you have to say, they will open the car door, they bring you flowers, they will tell you how wonderful you are at least once every five minutes. Charming~ And then, you get married, and it all goes away~ ... You know I often say to my wife when we first met, I used to say oh lying next to me so that I can hold you close~ And now I have to yell stay on your side of the bed. It's hot! Hahaha.. So now in summer please stay on your side of the bed or you are blocking the air-conditioning, you are trying to kill me~So, yes, The charming is always happened at the begining of the relationship. It's always wonderful~ 哈哈，这老师逗死我了~不过他讲的也是事实，很多婚姻都把爱情埋葬了，这就是我想看看赖佩霞老师的《亲密关系》的原因吧，能把爱情转化成亲密关系是需要智慧的，不动脑子任其发展必然会让爱被婚姻埋葬的。或许这便是所谓爱商LQ。

关于公司……还是很不好说。据听说，下周老温便要进场了，但竟然，老温家中国总部是上海的，总说上海人不好打交道，也不知这一批会如何人也~还有大叔何去何从也没有半点的风声，一切都是推测。

今儿从duke屋里出来，正巧碰上业主找大叔说事儿，堵在了门口，气势汹汹的。虽然大叔当时镇定自若，面带微笑，但我从会议室玻璃里偷瞄，也看出他一副愁苦的小眼神儿……哎，虽然没搞清楚是什么问题，不过换位想想，要不是矛盾越积越大，也不至于大老远跑这里来折腾。我觉得吧，搞这种加盟体质的，是个双刃剑，管好了是互惠互利的轻快短板，搞不好很容易失去连结一盘散沙。总部有品牌效应统领全局，给各节点提供好支持，这方面讲类似一种网络（服务）。支持的给力业主才能踏心儿经营，串联起来网络才能四通八达。现在这情况，我看也不是一时半会的矛盾，冰冻三尺非一日之寒吧。个人觉得吧，大叔要还真想扭转，对他个人挑战是最大的。秤砣沉点儿，杠杆长点儿。另外，油还有点不太够，轴承转起来阻力过大，有时候还互相卡壳。哦，想起来，今儿找duke，合着那个会员卡政策两边就没说通过，duke找hh，应该他这个层面管的事儿也一推二五六了，看以后大w怎么和他干仗吧！哎！想想做高层管理也真是累，大利益集团下面划分那么多小集团，还得相互配合推动的，不能互相碍事儿。比数据结构难~不过曾经辉煌那几年他也做得不错了，不知怎的就……